Friday, April 3, 2009

What's up with blow jobs?

Okay guys, you gotta help me out.  I see so much writing coming from butches about loving blow jobs, and femmes loving to give them, and frankly, I don't get it.  Now, I like to strap it on as much as the next guy, but I don't get the attraction.

It's not that we haven't tried it, because we have.  And yes, I admit that it's a nice visual, and when your lady knows how to press the base just right, it's nice, but that's about as far as I want to take it.  I wouldn't be able to get off that way.  In my mind, why not eliminate the silicone barrier?  

So, fans of the lesbian blow job, please fill me in.  Please! 

7 comments:

Tina-cious.com said...

I'll have to point Jess in this direction... ;)

Chanel said...

Lol. Wow. If i can get my gf to actually come and post a response, I will cuz she's a fan. I never quite understood the lre either but if she likes it, i love it!

Seth Martin Ward said...

Blow jobs for me are about control...really sex for me is all about control. If I can get a woman to allow me to make her gag on it, then all the better. If she won't do it, I'll try to get her to over time, breaking down her will until she does. Eventually they all break and will do what ever you want. So it's really about power.....at least to me it is.....Interesting blog. Be good to yourself.

Firebolt said...

Whatever rocks your boat, I say. Obviously, it is different for everybody. I haven't had any experience with it so I don't have an opinion.

Dirt said...

Its whats become of femme/butch, queer theorys sad male-centric influence reducing Butch women to faux "men".

dirt

Nate said...

ok, I'm trans so maybe this opinion means bullshit but here you go anyway. I love getting a blowjob, yes it's partly about power over someone considering I'm stone too. but it actually feel slike a part of me so...I like them, my lovers like giving me them. It's good

Heather said...

Think about how much of sex is enjoyed without the gratification of physical pleasure/ bodily response? A lot of people get off on watching in general, watching someone get undressed, watching someone touch themselves or watching two other people fuck each other- none of that leads to orgasm but a lot of people fucking love it- you don't feel what you're making you partner feel if you're getting them off, but you still love doing it. Of course, then there is a more simple answer- you can come this way. I recommend the spareparts harness that has room for a vibe behind the dildo- using a dildo with balls works especially well. Combining that visual with any stimulation gets me partner off every time.

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